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Is The Fear Of Change Why You Are Still Holding On? [Video]

Are you holding on to the wrong things in your business because you are afraid to change Let’s use clothing as an easy analogy. Holding on because of fear of change can definitely be debilitating for any business growth. Yet holding on does have it's merits... I started thinking about holding on to things you love for the right reasons in different aspects of life and business. About holding on to things because you're just used to holding on and you are afraid of [...]

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[True Confession] What’s in a brand name?

[True Confession] What’s in a brand name? Perception. In all honesty I was thinking about changing my instagram handle from @focusonstyle to my name, Sharon Haver. I started to feel like after 2O years online and having a syndicated newspaper column that went out to 400 papers with that name before it, it was time for change. Not necessarily just for me… But because the word “style” seems to REPEL a certain audience and ATTRACT another. (Don’t even get me started about what some people [...]

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Client Attraction: When They’re Not Your Raving Fans [Video]

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When they’re NOT your raving fan… Went to a concert last night and it got me thinking what happens when you’re in front of your wrong audience. The rest of the audience, just me. I was miserable but not the other 18,000ish people there. That’s because they were raving fans and I’d rather escape to record this video for you. What’s key to client attraction is that everyone doesn’t have to like you- that’s how you draw a line in the sand to who [...]

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The Best Way To Promote On Social Media Without Being Salesy? [Video]

Is Speaking right for you? Let's get real on speaking to digital. Okay, fess up... are you a little afraid of the online world? Do you think public speaking is a better choice because you're not that techie? Maaaaybe not so much. Listen as I share some numbers and expenses and where the rewards and targeted results come from. You may be surprised. I meet so many women entrepreneurs and coaches who totally buy into the 'speaking thing' without realizing the hidden costs... emotional, physical, and monetary [...]

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How Branding Is Like Your Favorite Old Boots [Video]

Is Speaking right for you? Let's get real on speaking to digital. Okay, fess up... are you a little afraid of the online world? Do you think public speaking is a better choice because you're not that techie? Maaaaybe not so much. Listen as I share some numbers and expenses and where the rewards and targeted results come from. You may be surprised. I meet so many women entrepreneurs and coaches who totally buy into the 'speaking thing' without realizing the hidden costs... emotional, physical, and monetary [...]

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You Have The Power To Be True To You

I’m going to get frank… does this resonate with you or someone you know?? I’m afraid. I’m scared. I’m not worthy. What if….? Little stabs against your self worth, little punctures of your strength… inflicted by your own hand.👹 I see so many women coaches, entrepreneurs, business owners— many younger— who have personally taken their own power away. They’re so afraid to get out there. So afraid to simply just be themselves that they have paralyzed themselves from ever rising to their goals.💪🏻 Yesterday was a weird juxtaposition... [...]

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What’s Good About Haters… [Video]

We get so worried when we get whackos and haters online. But the truth is, if you’re not getting some cross dialogue once in a while, you are probably not putting your message out there in the most efficient way. Watch this video to learn why haters are a good thing and what you should do when they’re not: [...]

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Behind The Scenes On A PhotoShoot You Can Do On Your Own [Video]

Lights, Camera… now what? You don’t need all that stuff but there is nothing wrong with tszujing up the equipment on occasion. It's important to remember though that you are the main attraction, not any of the extra fancy things around you. Having a good background is definitely important for looking aspirational, but that doesn't mean you need to think so hard about it that you can't focus on your message. Fancy equipment can be fun! It can make videos look really [...]

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Are branding photos the best way to connect with your audience? [Video]

How do you balance your brand imaging? It isn't always 50/50. Who doesn't love easy math? This equation only has three parts: 80, 20 and YOU. When it comes to your online photos, 80 percent of the time you want to bring the every day you. The other 20 percent, feel free to tszuj it up! The most important part of the equation is you. You bringing yourself to the table. Whether it's an everyday look or all Glam and Glitter - we [...]

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Why you may be getting overlooked online and how to fix that [Video]

Do you wonder why you’re not getting noticed online? This could be the reason... As fun as it is to do big brand fancy photo shoots, this isn’t the best way to represent yourself. Why? Because people aren’t connecting with you as a REAL person! People relate to real people, and if you’re posting the same picture all over the place people zone out! We get exhausted from seeing the same photo over and over again. Or the same three photos, for that [...]

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