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    Empower your self with this one shift

    Empower Your Decisions With A Simple Tweak…

    If you want to lean how to empower your personal leadership to get what you want, I’ve got something ridiculously easy for your to put into practice.

    It’s so easy to slack on personal leadership and defer to the opinion of others without even realizing it.

    But what if you asked yourself this ONE empowering decision the next time your’e not sure?

    Watch the video to learn more…

    It’s a total shift in empowering yourself…

    I’ve been using this shift with clients and students, with my team, and actually subconsciously been using it myself for years.

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    Video Transcription

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    Hello, hello, hello.

    Hello from my place out west.

    I wanted to come in today with a question,

    that I’m gonna start using with my team

    and that I use with clients and
    I use with students as well,

    and it’s something that
    I really invite you

    to use with yourself.

    And it really is simply
    asking the question,

    what do you think?

    So I was listening to some podcasts,

    and this was a methodology
    they were using,

    and I’m interpreting it into
    my own different way as well,

    which you should with any
    methodology you learn.

    You should never do anything by the book.

    You should always learn to
    put your own personal spin

    to what works for you and in your life.

    So by asking yourself, what do you think,

    it eliminates a lot of these
    back and forth questions,

    as leadership and team building,

    as far as own personal leadership as well.

    So rather than always having to defer

    to someone else’s opinion,
    it gives you the ability

    to come right in and to think for yourself

    with an answer of, what do you think?

    Okay what do I think?

    I think, and I’m gonna
    give myself the chance

    to look for that and have an
    answer before I go out there.

    So then when I talk to someone,

    and I say hey I have a question,

    and my response or your response could be,

    what do you think?

    That other person would actually
    come with some information,

    based on life experience, research,

    Mr. Google, whatever it is.

    So it empowers you more into
    your own personal thinking,

    as well as it saves a lot
    of back-and-forth questions.

    Now something like that

    isn’t what I really help my students,

    especially in the new challenge
    that’s coming up soon,

    the Authentic SuperStar Challenge,

    which you can go get on right
    now at,

    and that’s really the ability
    to learn how to show up.

    That’s something, how you show up.

    And a lot of people ask me,

    I have this photo what
    do you think about it?

    What do you think about this stuff?

    My opinion is great,
    but what do you think?

    What do you think?

    Do you think that you’re coming across

    in the right way in your photos?

    Do you think that you’re coming

    across confidently on camera?

    Do you think that your
    authentic visual storytelling

    is telling the story that
    you want people to hear,

    to know about you?

    So if you can come back and say,

    well I think it looks great,

    or I don’t really feel
    like it looks like me,

    or I don’t think it’s this,

    then the other person
    can come back and say,

    well okay, if you think it’s
    great, cool, coolio, right?

    If you think you need some help,

    I can help you with something

    like the Authentic
    SuperStar Challenge, right?

    is where you have to go,

    and I can give you five
    days of working with me.

    And right now, as I’m
    recording this, it’s free.

    It won’t be forever, so I
    suggest you go there right now,

    and you’ll be able to learn
    how to position yourself,

    how to setup your own photos,
    how to stage your own set,

    how to be in touch with your own brand,

    how to model your brand

    after all the big celebrities out there

    who are now in this moment being real.

    And if you look at your social media

    and you look at Instagram or Facebook,

    you’ll start seeing, if you
    follow pretty major celebrities

    or big thought leaders, they’re
    being totally authentic.

    What was going on a few years ago

    of people being more staged and phony,

    and the woman running along the beach

    in her ballgown, kind of, fantasy,

    that doesn’t connect anymore.

    That’s not what’s in
    the zeitgeist right now.

    What’s happening is,

    in the climate of your
    business as it is right now,

    people are relating to real people,

    because they smell a fake.

    They smell a phony.

    You see behind me, we have Mr. Poodle.

    I could see him walking.

    So what happens is you
    really need to come in now

    and learn how to just position yourself,

    in the most authentic way,

    so that you could get
    your message out there.

    That you could be telling
    your story the right way.

    That you are positioning yourself,

    which is the new currency.

    There’s no doubt about it,
    positioning is the new currency.

    So like meets like.

    You ever hear that saying

    about birds of a feather flock together?

    Well it’s the same thing

    in all these photos and your videos,

    because people flock to
    people who are like them

    and slightly aspirational to them.

    So if you wanna come
    across looking insecure

    and not really knowing what
    you’re doing on camera,

    you’re gonna get more
    people, that are insecure

    and not really knowing
    on camera, to follow you.

    But if you’re confident in how
    you’re setting yourself up,

    and you’ve mastered the look

    and the meaning of how
    you are and the setting,

    then you got gold right there

    in them there hills, right? (laughs)

    So if you wanna learn more how to do that,

    of course, go over to

    But you know, even something as simple,

    right now, as the set and setting.

    I’m wearing a silk blouse now,

    and I’m in my house in Wyoming,

    and you can see over my shoulder that way,

    you’ve got my pictures

    of black and white old movie star westerns

    and snow photos of old cowboys
    and country western people,

    and my fireplace over there.

    So I am in my western thing.

    I am wearing silk.

    So that’s in an aspirational
    way a little more up-level

    than what most people assume,

    but this is also my vacation house.

    So if you think about set and setting,

    it puts that up there as well.

    So you need to just be
    a little more cognizant

    of how you position yourself.

    How not only you’re
    positioning yourself this way,

    but how you also positioning
    yourself within the camera,

    within the range, how your
    body language is in the camera,

    that you’re not doing anything fancy.

    It’s actually better
    when you’re doing things,

    right now, on your
    phone or on your webcam.

    And if your taking photos,

    I can’t give you my phone
    because I’m on it (laughs).

    But if you’re taking photos,
    just learning how to,

    make believe this is a phone.

    (Sharon giggles)

    How to set yourself up
    without feeling like a lunatic

    and being natural in
    photos that you can use

    as the thumbnails for your
    lives and your videos,

    that you can use for your Instagram.

    You can use for your Facebook.

    I use my own photos that I made myself

    for the cover of my book.

    So you can use it for print as well,

    and it’s a much more real,

    concise way of putting yourself together.

    So again, if you’re not sure,

    just ask yourself what do you think?

    What do I think about this?

    And then if you think that you’re

    having the authentic visual
    storytelling the right way,

    if you think you’re positioning
    yourself for success,

    if you think you’re being seen

    as the kind of person you wanna be seen,

    if you think you’re
    attracting the kind of clients

    that you could scale up with
    an broaden your audience.

    Because they’ll start relating to you

    in a much more real, normal matter,

    because it is authentic and
    it’s not phony and staged.

    Well when you got all
    those answers together,

    that’s great, that’s groovy.

    And if you need more help,

    hey go over to

    I’m starting the challenge really soon,

    and I hope to see you there.

    It’s free for the moment,

    And do me a favor, if
    you find value in this,

    share it with a friend.

    And if you wanna know when I go live,

    ’cause I’ve been going live at night,

    follow me on my feed and
    hit the notifications button

    to turn that on.

    So see you soon, and see you
    over at

    (kiss blowing) Buh-bye.


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