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I inadvertently started my blog during my infant son’s nap time back in 1999… before the term ‘blog’ was even popular.

Through it all, I believe…

Your style is your fingerprint in all that you do… it’s how you see the world + how the world perceives you.

 

The blog archives go back to the beginning and are updated regularly.  You’ll find 1,000’s of posts about modern business, branding, positioning, marketing, photos, fashion, style, beauty, lifestyle… and most importantly, how to do anything authentically. Enjoy!

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Power Plate Review: Power Plate vibration training at home…

Power Plate is the celebrity fitness machine for a speedy workout My Power Plate review fot vibration training at home. Celebrity fitness machine for a speedy workout. Madonna may have gotten the buzz on everyone's lips, but Brookstone has the super fast workout machine to jiggle your hips. Don't get me wrong, the Power-Plate is a strange bird when it comes to exercise. We all want everything faster than lightening, after all who has time to waste? So here comes this fitness apparatus which uses Acceleration Training, a.k.a. vibration training to produce a full tilt boogie workout in only 15 minutes by initiating 25-50 muscle contractions per second— it's like the Iron Chef of butt crunches! Sounds pretty amazing for

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Tourist Chic, Vacation dress do’s and don’ts…

Fugly Fashion Mistakes | Tourist Chic, Vacation dress do's and don'ts: What to wear while traveling and how to avoid fugly fashion mistakes -> Our example of GREAT casual style is wearing clothes by AdamPlusEve. Tourist Chic, Vacation dress do's and don'ts...What to wear while traveling and how to avoid fugly fashion mistakes Dear Sharon:I'm employed in the tourist industry at a resort area which draws travelers from across the country. Being involved with tourists daily, permits me to observe the many different styles of dress— some good, some not. I often see a lot of women travelers who dress like they are in their teens, others who like they are ready to wash the car, or some who just

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Ticks and Tatts…

A little country ditty to keep your summer rolling Ticks and Tatts - Ticks by Brad Paisley is a little country ditty to keep your summer rolling You know how there are those funky summer songs which have that memorable hook that you can't quite get out of your head? To this day, I can place my Hamptons summer with Sheryl Crow's “All I Want to Do” chorus etched in my brain. Move forward a dozen years later and a few thousand miles West, and this time I'm all itchy about Brad Paisley's infectiously catchy tune, Ticks is just what you need to have some fun this summer… “…. your jeans are playing peek a boo I'd like to see

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Ultra low rise jeans for men… Can an older guy bare as much as a babe?

Ultra low rise jeans for men… Can an older guy bare as much as a babe? I was wondering what your advice on straight guys wearing ultra low rise jeans with a little tummy showing? I am in my late forties but I have a very flat, tanned stomach, and a slim build. My girlfriend loves me wearing lowrise jeans! She has seen a few guys about wearing belly baring jeans and I know it is becoming a more common fashion trend. Any opinions??? Thanks and regards. (Newcastle, UK) Ok, sweetcakes, let's access. You're in pretty darn studly shape for a guy who is technically middle-age, bravo! No need to pull out the gramps pleated pants and sensible cardigan just

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Feeling right in a swimsuit… Flattering swimsuits to build self-confidence

Feeling right in a swimsuit… Flattering swimsuits to build self-confidence All my life I've worn those bathing suits that cover just as much of my body as regular clothes do. The other day I decided to try on a regular bikini type bathing suit, just to see how it would look. It looks GREAT on me, and I'm not that ashamed of my body like I used to be, but I'm still embarrassed to go to the beach or anywhere else while I'm wearing it! I need more self- confidence. I won't even show it to anyone besides my mom, who tells me it looks great. How can I get used to showing that much skin in public?(San Diego, CA)

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Stay tuned for the 6 o’clock tee shirt…

T-Post has all the news fit to wear T-Post has all the news fit to wear Extra, extra, read all about it!!! Calling all Newsionistas… get your quirkiest newsy bites right on your t-shirt. T-Post takes dressing smart to a whole other level. Billed as the first smart and wearable magazine, each “issue” of the Swedish export, T-Post features an edgy illustrated design on the outside with a quick narrative printed on the inside. Available by subscription, girls or guys can look for their cute and canny headlines to arrive in their mailbox every six weeks Not exactly hard news, more like thought provoking, scratch your head and ponder graphic tidbits silk-screened on a fashion-friendly American Apparel t-shirt that are

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Shoe Innersoles, jazz up your step…

Fashion treat for sweaty feet Fashion Shoe Innersoles - Chic treat for sweaty feet with Summer Soles. Shoe innersoles, or insoles, those yucky-colored uninspiring liners that hardly deserve a place inside our faultlessly chic shoes. But they do have that extra absorbent quality that's a bonus for summer sweaty feet. And let's face, when you go without hose on a hot day, your feet can get pretty sticky and blistered. But what's a fashionista to do? Skip the blue gel or humdrum beige drugstore insoles and put some groove in your step! Summer Soles are brightly colored, tastefully neutral, or jazzy animal print innersoles that are so stylish you won't be embarrassed to kick off your shoes. The fashion friendly,

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Double your shoe wardrobe…

Convert backless shoes into chic and strappy footwear Muleos backless shoe contverter. Stylish shoe accessory strap to convert a pair of mules into strappy sandals. Come on, just say the dual shoe mule ten times fast. Just try to say it without tripping up. I dare you. Ok, you won't trip as much as when the hem of your wide-leg pants gets caught in your mules. Or, what if you commit the nasty fashion faux pas of wearing pantyhose with backless shoes? Besides looking ugly, your feet slip with every attempted step. What about when your foot hangs off the back of the slide like a drag queen trying to make good on borrowed shoes? Then, there's that clitter-clatter down

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Divalicious Fashion Advice with a Twang…

Ask a Gay Man Divalicious Fashion Advice with a Twang. Ask a Gay Man fashion videos by William Sledd on YouTube. William Sledd was probably playing with Pound Puppies (oh, is that a Versace dog collar?!) when I was starting out as a stylist. And almost from the get go of my style career, fabulousness all aside, I felt that fashion really wasn't connecting to the everyday person as frankly as it could. That's why I started my syndicated fashion advice column and then, eventually this web site, but you should know my pedigree by now and my need to keep it real. Only yesterday, I was glancing at a fairly mass-appeal ‘fashion' column which offered some double duh, lightbulb-popping

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When to wear black leather jacket… How to get past your fashion comfort zone

When to wear black leather jacket… How to get past your fashion comfort zone My mother was a very fashion conscious woman and always reminded her girls of "what not to wear". Well, mom is gone and I wondered if there is any fashion etiquette that tells you when to put your favorite black leather jacket away for the spring - summer season? Or, depending on the weather, is it fashionable to wear it all year? (Sault Sainte Marie, MI) >>RELATED: Leather Weather: A Black Leather Jacket At Any Age To Suit Your Every Mood! First off, I'm sorry for your moms passing, with a little luck some of your mom's more sage fashion advice will stay with you for the rest

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Princess for a day…

Make it a Disney wedding gown Disney launches a collection of Disney Princess-inspired wedding gowns. The designer bridal line is officially called Kirstie Kelly for Disney's Fairy Tale Weddings Collection where every wedding dress is inspired by a Disney princess. Frankly, I'm still trying to get over my last Disney experience taking in hoards of Theme Park visitors of all shapes and sizes wearing the warm (and not so warm) weather tourist uniform of unflattering short shorts, white boxy sneakers, and white athletic socks. I wish had a magic makeover wand to turn each and every waddling pair of pull-on shorts into a becoming, comfy and casual summer outfit— that would be magic! I also have to admit that I

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All I want for Spring, are a few good looks

Spring fashion trends: Fashion advice to look eternally chic on a budget Update your wardrobe with key fashion trends on a budget. Update your wardrobe with key fashion trends on a budget TOP TRENDS SHOPPING GUIDE Dear Sharon: My wardrobe isn't very in. Last year, I had a major job change and to celebrate I got hooked on looking trendy. Now, my once trendy wardrobe from last season comes across as very dated and out of fashion. My budget won't let me continue to shop around for new fashion trends each year either. Can you give me a few good ideas that will make my existing wardrobe stylishly transition into this spring? Thanks in advance! --Spring Ahead, (Ft. Leonard Wood,

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How to dress a curvy derriere… Clothing tips for a bubble butt

 My butt sticks out, there, I've said it! I've got a rockin' Sir Mix Alot kinda ass on a petite white girl frame. I am 5'3" with a little extra poundage, pear shaped, a swooping sway back in my lower back, and a ton of junk in my trunk. I am trying to find clothing options that accentuate the good things-- shapely legs, good pale skin, and excellent cleavage. The full skirts of the season are not very flattering. I love dresses, too. What should I be looking for when I clothes shop so my booty doesn't look so huge?(Ann Arbor, MI) >> MORE: Dress Tips For A Big Butt Baby, I got your back so don't you worry. Mama

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